When the various mothers get together the subject of "horrifying (but, much later, amusing) childbirth experiences" sometimes come up. Terms such as "4th level laceration", "vaganus", "prolapsed uterus", with attached descriptions, and the phrase "spurting blood", will cause some very tough guys to get very pale and find someplace else to be. Earth First! (We can strip mine the rest later.)[ Parent ]
I can't even begin to imagine the fear and emotional up and downs that women go through.
Labor itself, though, is terrifying for everyone involved, I think.